I think this is a major piece of philosophical literature. It is simultaneously Augustine's Confessions, Ovid's Art of Love, Leibniz's Art of Combinations, Luther's 95 Theses, Marx's manifesto, and King's civil disobedience -- all rolled into one book. Dr. Martin has done a masterful job of weaving complex and traditional philosophical ideas into a truly original view of human sexuality. He has made the book readable to the general public while simultaneously establishing an important philosophical viewpoint. This is a must read for anyone who cares about how sex will look in the next 500 years.
Francis Githieya, Ph.D.
Theology Department
Saint Leo University
Atlanta, GA
Dr. Dennis Martin has presented in this book a compelling and provocative argument for Western civilization to adopt a new view of human sexuality. In addition to a fine piece of philosophical writing, he has also come up with a delightful approach to flirtatiousness and sex, which I believe will be a tremendous boon to long-term relationships everywhere.
In his analysis of Western thought in regard to the "correct" function of human sexuality, ranging from Aristotle and Aquinas to the current Roman Catholic pontiff, Dr. Martin demonstrates the tremendous impact of these influential thinkers on current sexual issues. These issues range from contraception and abortion to homosexual lifestyles and the "let’s hook up" mentality of many young people today. He convincingly calls for a reevaluation of the relationship of sex to human joys, indulgences, and procreation. He reminds us that human beings are much more complex than other life forms, and shows us new ways to think about sex, using our brain power to make choices, set limits, and inject greater enjoyment and fun into courtship, marriage, and other committed adult relationships. He deals realistically with the challenges of sex in the 21st century, and makes creative suggestions as to ways to approach and overcome obstacles that can cause relationships to be frustrating rather than fulfilling.
Dr. Martin has also provided a new tool called "Flirts and Spices", a game of sorts, involving the use of activity cards, mischievous and thoughtful planning, and your own imagination. As a survivor of the "divorce wars", I can truly say that if my now ex-husband and I had had such a game available, and were confident and playful enough to have used it, our marriage would not have dissolved. I recommend this book and the use of the game to every couple who wants to increase their joy in each other, and put the mystery and excitement back into a relationship which may be getting just a little bit boring.
Flirts and Spices makes a perfect gift for yourself, your partner, or for friends and family . It's for anyone who is open to bringing new sexual joys and satisfaction into their life.
Sue Garland
Atlanta Freethought Society
Flirts and Spices was written as an educational discussion of sex and ideas, but the author has some good plans on how to keep, or get, your sex life humming. My partner and I think the cards, which come with the book, are great! We’ve not only had good sex, but lots of good talks and more fun than we’ve had for a couple of years. We are a committed gay couple, and recommend the book to others, both gay and straight people who have open minds. It helped me to understand why so many people are against our lifestyle. Very good investment.
TJ and PW
Greenville, SC
